I met you 2009 and now I’m married to you. The title “husband” or “wife” is basically telling that we are legally married by law for both country and religion but we did not tell people how deeply in love we are.
But sometimes I ponder myself and ask why some married men and women go out and have an affair in order to keep the marriage? They cheat their partners to ease the stress coming from their partner to make the marriage better?
I understand the years of being together but if there is no understanding or give and take, then why both declare love and get married?
Comfort and Love is two different things. Both need to exist. Both need to work. I am comfortable and in love with you.
But if you gonna ask why choose the word comfort instead of trust? The trust comes later after you get your comfort. And don’t forget the love part.
For me, I’ll tell the whole world that you are my wife but does anyone knows whether I’m suffering or pretend to love? I don’t want to feel the constricted with the title like i.e I do things for her because she is my wife.
I prefer the word Love. You are my Love. I do things for her because I love her.
Title is just a status for the public to recognise you. Its takes lesser time and few bucks to get the title.
Love is just one word and takes terrible fights, cries and happiness. Comfort. Trust. And One.
I love you Sri Arianti binte Kamil.
Forgive me for me being here.
